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Soul Lessons
I’ve read four of Dr. Brian Weiss’ books within the past 10 months: Miracles Happen; Only Love is Real, Many Lives, Many Masters; and...
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Mar 30, 20233 min read


Rest in Peace, Rest in Love
My mom passed away this month from complications due to cancer. During her last week alive, she was in a lot of pain-- too weak to talk,...
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Jan 23, 20232 min read


From Resistance to Acceptance
It’s been a crazy couple of months in two different ways. Crazy abundant with my work in a state of flow, especially after a long period of reorganization on the micro and macro level. Our individual lives, our professional lives, and the world that we live in— it’s all interconnected! I see the past three years as time and space needed to get clear on WHAT I wanted, WHY, and HOW I’d put things in place. The guidance that I’d often come back to was— Is this for my highest goo
tammyhayano6
Nov 24, 20223 min read


Lessons from Mother Earth
I started a backyard garden in June with the intention to connect more to Mother Earth. The notion was to grow my relationship with her...
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Sep 29, 20222 min read


Greece is the Word
About seven years ago, I applied to be a visiting wellness practitioner for an international resort. I got on the roster of approved...
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Aug 15, 20222 min read


Once Upon a Vortex
Last month, I celebrated my birthday in Sedona, Arizona with a Breathwork Healer Training and in the awe of Mother Nature. The energy there felt so open, friendly, and noticeably at a higher frequency. Being in a place with a higher vibration has a unique and delightful quality. Synchronicity is abundant, often in humorous ways. Luck and small gifts present themselves readily. There’s a lightness in the air and a sense of aliveness. In Sedona, the ‘veil’ between the human wor
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Jun 7, 20222 min read


Like It or Not, We're Interconnected
“We are spiritual beings distracted by the human condition.”— David Elliott I’ve been thinking about how we, as humans, create our own identity and the identity of others. It can start as soon as we are born. As we go through life, we add or change words to define ourselves and others. We develop preferences, bias (implicit and explicit), judgements, beliefs, assumptions, and perspectives. This is the human condition. No one is above it, but we can be aware of it and observ
tammyhayano6
May 7, 20222 min read


It's Time to Bloom
March was one of those months where there weren't enough hours in the day to get what I needed done. Fresh from my 3 week trip to Costa Rica, I moved directly to Alameda, California. Here I was in a brand new city; no client base; no network; battling a website malfunction issue; scouting indoor and outdoor locations to facilitate; feeling the pull to ‘level up’ my modalities and services but needing time to plan it out; and noticing that my business income was on the
tammyhayano6
Apr 4, 20222 min read


Diaries from my Colonic
Greetings from my new home in Alameda, California— also known as the East Bay and just a hop away from San Francisco. Although I...
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Mar 11, 20223 min read


No Nourishment, No Lotus
I really sat with my intention. Found a beautiful venue. Spent HOURS creating the webpage. And put down a large deposit. But there were...
tammyhayano6
Jan 11, 20223 min read


What. A. Year.
As I reflect upon the past twelve months, my take away is resilience. Being able to withstand change, uncertainty, things that didn’t work out, and conflict. Most of this was based on expectations and how attached I was to an experience. Calling it an experience helps keep it more universal and neutral (“What is this teaching me? What is this showing me?”) instead of individual or personal. What we may be attached to can be quite a long list: a plan, a person, a viewp
tammyhayano6
Dec 16, 20213 min read


Integration & Interconnection
I was at the end of my life. Lying in a hospital bed. Tubes up my nose. Wearing a white hospital gown with tiny blue flowers. Standing...
tammyhayano6
Nov 21, 20212 min read


Inner Work with Interoception: Oct. 15, 2021
About nine years ago, I injured my lower back after taking part in a running activity. I was in deep pain. It hurt to sit, bend over, or even stand. I had completed my yoga teacher training the year before and saw my career that I was ready to embark on crumbling before my eyes. I went to a chiropractor and had the standard initial consultation. “Why are you here? Where is the pain? Can you describe it? Is it dull or sharp?” I remember being frustrated with all these q
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Nov 4, 20213 min read


Unwinding my Anger through TRE®: June 24, 2021
As a child, anger was scary, explosive, and unpredictable. That was my relationship with it and continued on into my adult years. Whenever I saw someone showing their anger, my body froze, my muscles tensed, and I felt small. I didn't even need to be involved in the situation to get pulled into the automatic protective response from my childhood. At an early age, I remember promising myself that "I would never be like that"— someone who could not control their temper a
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Nov 4, 20213 min read


A Mexican Ghost Story: May 17, 2021
COMPLETION. Over a year ago, I encountered a little girl named Maria at a beach town in Mexico. We connected easily, and she showed me...
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Nov 4, 20212 min read


New Beginnings: March 12, 2021
For months, I had received numerous auspicious signs about the new lunar cycle (Tibetan and Chinese New Year) which coincided with the...
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Nov 4, 20211 min read


Yesterday is Creating Your Tomorrow: Feb. 2, 2021
This quote from Joe Dispenza’s book Becoming Supernatural , stands out to me. I’m reading it through the lens of a Family Constellation facilitator, TRE® provider, and wellness practitioner. Through his research and my interest in quantum physics, epigenetics, ancestral trauma, and neuroscience, I have also seen evidence of his work in my own work. Consider this. How much of your time is spent talking about the past? “I used to be so skinny / muscular / fit / attractive
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Nov 4, 20212 min read


Healing the Heart: Jan. 12, 2021
"Do you like yourself?" Sarah Peyton, a family constellation trainer, asked me this question at her workshop a couple of years ago. I looked at the woman in the room 'representing' me and gauged my feelings. "I don't... not like her," I answered. I was relieved that I didn't hate myself, but a bit surprised that I didn't have warmer feelings other than detached observation. Sarah inquired further, "Do you mean it's neutral?" I felt into this for a few moments and thou
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Nov 4, 20213 min read


A New "Grattitude": Dec. 2, 2020
HAPPY DECEMBER. We made it folks. I can hardly believe that we are in the final month of 2020, with 9 months taken up by the pandemic....
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Nov 4, 20212 min read


Connecting to Your Ancestors: Nov. 2, 2020
My love of Mexico and my work with Family Constellations has inspired me to celebrate The Day of the Dead (Dia de Los Muertos) at home tomorrow. This holiday originates from Mexico to honor our ancestors. It’s believed that at this time, the “veil” between the realm of ancestors and the living is thin, allowing precious moments to connect with them by receiving their blessings and/or any messages they have for us. It’s a festive day with parades, dancing, food, decorat
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Nov 4, 20213 min read
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